Its so strange and its such a small world....the one person who inspired me to write again does not even know me...well !! its just that was researching some guy and he had a blog and thot " you know wat..i had one" just forgot about it !!..after 3 years am back again !!
and so much has happened in these 3 years....3 years back everything looked planned and settled.. had a boyfriend of 7 years and nice job ..wen i was young i had lots of love, friends but no money and we used to actually struggle and now with gods grace have enough money but love,friends..dunno...
I mean i do have friends and some very sweet friends but each one is so engrossed in their lives that we just dont have the time...the love of my life is having second thoughts and so am I .. i mean after 10 years if there is a rethink .. are we a habit for each other..wher is the love???Is it that you have to be together if you were together for 10 years..Is it the fear of being alone??is being alone that bad a thing..u get to hear the normal stuff..you are 28, you have to get married..no one will get married to you..i mean BIG DEAL...i dont want to go in for any tom,dick and harry just because we HAVE to get married...I want a guy who cares for me and is practical in life..Is that so difficult ??Will i remain single..will i get married??i dont know..but have decided that will get married only if someone is worth spending my life with or will prefer staying alone..and will advise all the girls the same..Its better to stay alone and enjoy than to be caught in a relation where you have to keep sacrificing !!! so long then...tadaaa
and so much has happened in these 3 years....3 years back everything looked planned and settled.. had a boyfriend of 7 years and nice job ..wen i was young i had lots of love, friends but no money and we used to actually struggle and now with gods grace have enough money but love,friends..dunno...
I mean i do have friends and some very sweet friends but each one is so engrossed in their lives that we just dont have the time...the love of my life is having second thoughts and so am I .. i mean after 10 years if there is a rethink .. are we a habit for each other..wher is the love???Is it that you have to be together if you were together for 10 years..Is it the fear of being alone??is being alone that bad a thing..u get to hear the normal stuff..you are 28, you have to get married..no one will get married to you..i mean BIG DEAL...i dont want to go in for any tom,dick and harry just because we HAVE to get married...I want a guy who cares for me and is practical in life..Is that so difficult ??Will i remain single..will i get married??i dont know..but have decided that will get married only if someone is worth spending my life with or will prefer staying alone..and will advise all the girls the same..Its better to stay alone and enjoy than to be caught in a relation where you have to keep sacrificing !!! so long then...tadaaa
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